Getting old does not mean growing up!

I must say first that this blog has been inspired by a couple of friends' situation that I have heard over the past couple of days.

A friend I love very much once said that if a person is maturely fucked up before and after they turn 25, then 9 chances outta 10 they will continue to be throughout life. At first I didnt believe this theory but as the weeks have gone by I have see more and more that this shit is soo true.

A person I know has been in a relationship, off and on for a long time, however her longest relationship hasnt gone past 5 months. Now this young woman is accomplished, she has a job, a college degree, and about to go back to get her Masters. However; one could argue that a key component that she missed was the TRUE college experience. She has never left the comfort zone that is her mothers house.

I have begun to realize that some people are not comfortable with new concepts such as love and maturity because they are afraid to step out of there comfort zone and trust in something other than themselves. These people tend to be a bit selfish and pig headed. They feel like they are always right and anything that is foreign to them is bullshit!!

I still love this person, but its always interesting when she gets upset or angry because people tell her the truth! Again, like I said anything that she considers to attack her "comfort zone", she locks up and shuts down. She has recently attempted a relationship, and I guess she wants a promise that it will be able to go for the long haul. I realize yet again, if one is not secure in themselves then there is no chance in hell they can EVER wish to have a succesful relationship. So at this point I can only hope that she finds it within herself to reflect and get herself together before she drowns in her own sorrow!

Peace,

The Angel